6 Steps To the Life You Want

Know Your Power

You are beautifully and wonderfully made. You have the power to take control of your life.  And I’m not just saying this too boost your self esteem and get you all big headed. I’m saying this because it’s true. You can actually do ANYTHING you put your mind too. And I’ll tell you how.

Think. Take sometime time to reflect on what you really want. Think about what you REALLY want your life to be like. What do you want to give to the world? What do you want to learn? Get clear on those desires and make sure they’re actually yours. A lot of times we see other people doing something that may look fun and exciting, but it may not be what you really want. But you start to pursue it anyways. Get clear on what YOU truly want and what your heart aches for.

Ask. In other words, pray. Ask God for what you want.  Put it out there. . . Let it be known. This. Is. What. I. Want. God’s already said He will grant you the desires of your heart. (And I firmly believe he did not put them there for no reason.) But the first step is putting it out there, spark that magic!!! We all are constantly producing energy, whether it’s positive or negative. And by you simply acknowledging and asking for what it is you want, is creating that very energy!!! It’s OUT there. How exciting is that?

Believe. Now you have all of these amazing goals and desires. And you have asked God to bless you with those circumstances. But for some reason you have started to doubt yourself. By doing this you are stopping the flow of that very energy you just put out. Thus, making it damn near impossible to move forward. You are stagnant.  You have to believe. The bible says having faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains. MOUNTAINS wow. Believing that you can do something will give the universe no other choice than to give you what you want. And it will show God that you wholeheartedly believe in Him.

Know.  God lives in you. Know your power. Do you understand this? The bible says the Holy Spirit dwells in us. That alone, should show how powerful you are. Use your power.

Plan. You have to put time and energy into researching what it is you want to do, be or create. Knowledge IS power, and you need it to create a dope plan of action. Think about it like this… if someone wants to make the basketball team, they’d most likely would practice everyday, work on different techniques and watch tape of professional players. This is a pretty broad plan, but think if this person really broke it down and focused on the details, how much better they’d be. One of my favorite scriptures is “Write it down, make it plain.” Basically write that ISH down and make it happen!

Take Action. Now do it. Do it everyday and do it GOOD. Do not put mediocre work out there, because you’ll get mediocre results. There are many times when we create a plan, write down our goals and just close the book. We have to take a leap and do it. The right time is the present. What are you waiting for? Go get your blessings.


Jesus says that He came that we may have life, and may have it abundantly. ABUNDANTLY!!! So let’s live this abundant life.

Now go DO Life, Don’t let it do you.


xoxo Tiffany Malone AKA Fitty Fattys

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  • Reply Heather with WELLFITandFED November 6, 2015 at 8:55 pm

    This is fantastic. I just did a piece for SHAZZY FITNESS and you would be a perfect fit for them. You should see if they are interested in you doing a guest post for them. What a wonderful post.

  • Reply Roxanne November 6, 2015 at 6:56 pm

    Great post.

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